Working in Respite Care for Children

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Working in Respite Care for Children

Respite care is care that is provided to families who have sick or disabled children and who care for them around the clock. Respite care gives the parents or carers the opportunity to rest and enjoy a change of scenery for a short time while trained support staff assist with the day to day looking after of their children be it in their own home or in specially equipped respite homes. Respite care can range from one evening a week, to one weekend in a calendar month.

There are many respite schemes running up and down the United Kingdom but as with all charitable organisations and schemes more funding and volunteering is needed to ensure that more families get the benefit.

Short Break Schemes

Short Break Schemes allow registered and trained carers to be paired up with disabled children in order to allow the family free time or flexible hours in order to do things for themselves. In some instances children can go and stay in a specially equipped unit where they can enjoy many activities they might not be able to participate in at home. This also gives them the opportunity to interact with other disabled children and to enjoy a certain amount of independence.

The majority of children who benefit from respite schemes have severe learning difficulties and/or physical disabilities, very particular medical requirements or may even be terminally ill: whatever the nature of their condition there will be caring staff on hand to offer support and friendly interaction throughout their stay.

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Can I Become a Respite carer?

Anyone can become a respite carer; respite carers come from all walks of life, all age groups and all religions. No one is excluded from the opportunity to become a respite carer.

Respite carers - upon acceptance - are trained to the necessary level and - as with all positions involving children, are required by law to undertake the provision of a Disclosure and Barring Service (DBS) check. This check is designed to screen those candidates who wish to apply and make the process as quick and secure as possible.

A respite carer may be required to spend one day a week with a child, one night a week or one weekend per month depending on the nature of the respite care required. In addition they will be required by law to undergo ongoing training and are at all times provided with support from a 'mentor'.

Many carers initially come to respite projects with no formal training - and do so out of a desire to provide help and support to others living and coping with difficult circumstances. However as they progress they are given recognised training and guidance and often become almost part of the family.

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WorkingWithKids Editor 22/05/2026 at 9:16 am
@Kate Yes, it's perfectly legal to offer respite outside school, but you'll need to set yourself up properly. Look into registering as self-employed with HMRC, get public liability insurance, and check whether Ofsted registration applies (it usually does if you're caring for under 8s for more than two hours, or in your own home). An enhanced DBS is essential, and most families will also want to see paediatric first aid and any relevant SEND training. Word of mouth through the schools you already work with is honestly the best way to get started.
Kate 11/06/2024 at 3:41 pm
Hello, there
As lots of people here seem to be, I am an SEMH/SEND teacher and have met multiple parents over the years who can't find someone to give respite to their children due to behaviour. What would I need to do to offer my services to them? Would it be legal to offer respite outside the school environment?
Sox 01/06/2022 at 9:26 am
Hello I have worked in a special needs school for 21 years I also look after young adults outside of school I have a lovely home and would love to do weekend and holiday respite for young children an adults please get back to me asap
Natalie 15/09/2020 at 2:39 pm
Hi I’m interested in become a respite career what Qualifications do I need.
Shaz 16/06/2020 at 1:32 pm
Hi. I am interested in becoming involved in children's restbite care. I am a retired teacher and have experience working with special needs children. Please could you contact me with details of any necessary training. Thank you.
Marie 17/02/2020 at 3:25 pm
Hi I am teaching at a sen school with 18 years of experience. I wold like to offer respite at the weekends and holidays. I am also a PA for a sen child. How do I go about getting my name out there.
Thanks marie
Jules 13/01/2020 at 1:43 pm
Hi I am interested in providing respite, I have year's of experience working as a support worker(for the middle age group) , but would now like to offer my home or services towards respite. But I have no idea who or how to move in to this. Can you advise please.
tara 18/09/2019 at 9:08 pm
i’m looking for more information, i have experience with SEN, working in different schools. my child also has ADHD so i no how hard it can be looking after a child with disabilities, but every child deserves best life they can, and to achieve goals no matter what they maybe. And for parents to rest look after there selfs to. so i like if i can achieve my goals help children and parents.
Cam 20/08/2019 at 10:09 pm
Hello
I currently work at a centre called hop skip and jump , providing respite day care for children and autism and special needs. I am interested in potentially becoming a respite carer outside of work too from home. I live in a 2 bedroom house with my partner and 2nd room is currently a spare room until we have our own in the future. I would love some more information and advice.
Marnie 16/08/2019 at 7:22 pm
I work in a Special Needs school as a Teaching Assistant and also work as a Support Worker where I do Befriending for families.
I would love to get involved in providing Respite Care or Emergency Care for children.
Please can I have more information.

Many thanks

Marie
Kay 13/08/2019 at 1:51 pm
Looking for a care home for their child 17years old male
Mount pleasant 02/10/2018 at 1:57 pm
I am currently a foster Carer with a background in care in local hospital.
I am interested in providing respite for children with additional needs, and would like some information please.
Kind regards .
Aims 29/09/2018 at 9:00 am
Im currently a support worker for adults with learning disabilities in their home i have worked with children also i am really keen to get into resbite care but do not know which route to follow.
Ann 05/04/2018 at 8:50 am
I used to be a Carer Support worker for Crossroads care when I used to give respite care with adults & special needs children.I am interested in doing part time work as a part time support worker with children in their own homes. How can I apply for a position?
Kaz 23/02/2018 at 7:48 am
Can I have some info on overnight restbite, I’m intrested in become my a carer for this
Laila 08/04/2017 at 7:16 pm
Hello, im looking into restbite car for days and over night.. im a support worker at the moment for adults with learning disabilities at a day centre.
I have my nvq 3 in health and social care and have done my training for most care things including autism, safeguarding, first aid
Gina 13/02/2017 at 4:11 pm
Hi lots of experience with children eith special needs and sensory loss. Looking to work as a career. Who would I contact?
Sam 21/01/2017 at 5:15 pm
I am currently a level 3 qualified Ofsted registered childminder working from home. I have a sensory/play room, large lounge and seperate dinning room. I am considering offering respite care including overnight care. What other qualifications do I require? I have been trained to peg feed and have hands on experience with children with Epilepsy, developmental delay and Autism. Would it simply be a case of getting relevant training as and when required for individual children and keeping up to date with Paidiatfic First aid etc. Many thanks
Fife 04/04/2016 at 10:50 pm
Hello,I am looking to gather some advice on how my partner and myself can offer respite care to parents with children who have disabilities.Our own daughter was born at 27 weeks and required that bit more attention than her twin brother and my partner and myself would very much like to offer our help and experience to parents and children as we have built up substantial knowledge in medical appliances used at home,feeding alternative for babies/children with minimal suck or swallow reflex,feeding by bolus feed and pumps etc etc.
We are grateful for any advice.
Thank you.
barby 02/01/2016 at 10:03 pm
I have always loved children and they love me, I like to give them quality of life. What children want most is to be loved by the people who care for them. The simplest things can make them happy. They want to be listen to and understood. I appreciate the efforts children make. I have looked after children with allergies, asthma, excema, cerebral palsy, blind, deaf, dumb. I would expect destructive children to be on medication, such as, hyperactivity disorder, attention deficit. I have looked after well behaved children with down's syndrome and autisim. I couldn't look after older children that were strong, disobedient and violent.
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