Why do Some Children Need Psychologists?
Children – however much we would like to think that they are happy and contented and without fear – can face the same trials and tribulations as adults and indeed can sometimes be far more susceptible to psychological and behavioural disorders than adults.
For this reason child psychologists have now become commonplace and the stigma attached to having one treat and counsel our child has now eased.
What Does a Child Psychologist do?
Firstly it is important to note that a child psychologist cannot prescribe medication to a child. The role of the child psychologist is to provide rhyme and reason for children’s behaviour and also to help their parents counteract feelings of depression malcontent and discontent towards those around them.
Many children for example suffer the effects of bullying at school but may never tell their parents. Many children see their bullying as a sign of weakness and telling a parent only makes these feelings manifest themselves ten-fold.

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In the field of education a child psychologist may be known as an Educational Psychologist. An Educational Psychologist’s role will involve – for the most part – dealing with children who have psychological disorders or problems brought about by events or stresses related to schooling. As we have already discussed this may have something to do with bullying, which has now reached such a level that all schools have their own policies on how to deal with the problem.
Bullying, as you may or may not be aware, is not simply a case of one child – or group of children – physically attacking a child. There can be name calling, periods of prolonged psychological attack including name calling and rumour mongering, and now with the advent of technology which is widely and cheaply available to all (the Internet and mobile telephones) attacks on an individual of a psychological nature from afar which happen in and out of the school environment; this is often referred to as 'cyber bullying'.
Local Education Authorities (LEAs) employ the services of child psychologists on a regular basis to deal with some of the issues we have already mentioned. Children who are bullied often become withdrawn and find that their schoolwork and their interaction with those around them – children and adult alike – suffers.
Similarly the bullies themselves may need the assistance of a child psychologist to try and understand why they carry out these attacks on others and to bring about a cessation of their violent acts. Bullying, for the most part, is not a pastime that is carried out simply because it is enjoyable, but because there is an underlying force at work.
If a child is suffering abuse in the home – and this abuse does not have to be physical or sexual – it can be psychological or can be the child’s witnessing of events at home involving either parent; then they can resort to bullying others of smaller stature or quiet demeanour in order to bring attention to their own plight.
This is where the Educational Psychologist is called upon to try and judge the nature of the problem and help bring about a resolution that is beneficial to all. This work can be carried out directly or indirectly – depending on the severity of the case and what the psychologist thinks is the best course of action to take.
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Intervention
Direct intervention can be through counselling sessions where the psychologist and the child will speak to discuss the problems at hand. The psychologist may employ techniques involving learning materials or visual aids to try and promote a response from the child.
Indirect intervention can be carried out with the help of the parents and/or teachers who – liasing with the psychologist may promote the use of special lessons or classes to engage the child without them feeling pressured to give answers which may otherwise make them feel uneasy.
Becoming a Child Psychologist
A good starting block for anyone wanting to become a child psychologist is experience in any of the following: being a teacher, a learning support assistant (classroom assistant), a care worker, a learning mentor, or educational social worker.
Experience in any of the aforementioned plus the ability to communicate well with children and the relevant educational qualifications is the best way for anyone who wishes to become a child psychologist to make a start up the ladder. Consult your Local Educational Authority (LEA) and/or Social services for more information.
I need some advice. My 3 year old daughter is struggling with confidence both at home and in school especially around adults and it i affecting her learning. As soon as she is told to do anything that has to do with learning, she just starts to cry and say I don;t know how how to do it. I know she knows it but she just finds it difficult to settle down. It frustrates me as well seeing as she is always crying and never makes attempt to do things. Her teachers in nursery are also worried that she is not at the expected learning stage because she doesn't seem to want to practice things. All she does in school is cry as well. Nothing we tried worked. We have tried praising her to help boost her confidence but it doesn't work. I don't have ideas of what to do that can help her and it breaks my heart that she is lagging behind.
I am not sure what to do, please help with ny ideas that can work.
My 9 year old son seems to have difficulty in talking to my wife who is his step mum.
He goes through fases where he will speak with her and then just won't acknowledge that she even exists.
We have been together for 5 years and my son has lived with us for most of that time.
He has recently started wetting his bed and also does things then acts as if he can't remember doing it.
I've took him to see camhs who said he was just acting like a normal 9 year old but I think there's more to it.
can you help please
He was diagnosed last year but for the past 5 years since he came to live with my wife and I he has been a nightmare he goes through phases of not speaking to my wife and making her really uncomfortable. He draws looks at her and does his best to make her feel like she's not wanted.
I have took him to time to talk sessions but that didn't bring anything out. It's now came to the stage where my wife is giving me an ultimate to either make him go back to his mums or she is leaving.
I really need help or advise as I don't want to lose my family.
My problem now is a guardian has been appointed and she had written a awful report my daughter who is 7 has to see a psycolgist now as it has been said now it's emotional abuse, I have been Treated unfair and is extremely upset as how to deal with this person as if he writes a bad report my daughter will have to live with her father, just to point out I have grown up children and there have never been any problems, my ex is causing these problems, can you advise me how to help my daughter and my self to deal with this.
Do you know about the possible routes after a foundation degree in counselling? I've just started the course this month and I'm halfway through a counselling diploma. I am trying to find the next step to enable me to work with children,
Have you thought of doing an Open University course? It would be one way around not having to go into university each day. It lists a foundation degree in counselling and a BSc honours in psychology.
Dyslexia is a recognised disability under the Equality Act 2010, so there is a lot of help out there with universities and colleges offering extra funding and support. The level of support available can vary, and might include extra time allowed to finish exams, extra time for completion of assignments and a learning support tutor. The British Dyslexia Association can help with more advice.
Any organisation you apply to should get back to you with information, so I'm not sure what's happened there. As you might be aware there are also different levels of counselling and psycotherapy courses which you can take which might not be full time. Have a look online there will be something suitable out there for you. Good luck.
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